It is an extreme ordeal when everything that you have worked for, everything that you have ever dreamed of doing, is unjustly taken from you by a bigoted corrupt person. What made it worse for us is how it affected our children, how our unborn child was murdered, how my wife who had devoted her entire life to help children faced the harsh reality of no longer being able to work with children. Prior to our move to San Antonio, we would never have imagined meeting someone like Adrienne Driggers, a person so evil that she would sacrifice the safety and well-being of children to satisfy her insatiable hatred and abuse her immense power to destroy a people, who because of their race, were unworthy of being treated like human beings.
When Adrienne Driggers closed our daycare in San Antonio for Marla speaking to one of the parents about a sale at an HEB Plus grocery store, we were sent into a tailspin. As a reminder, Adrienne Driggers created a rule specifically targeting Marla where Marla could not appear to be more knowledgeable than the rest of the staff and could not be a "go to" person. The vagueness of this is what Driggers would use to say that Marla violated this rule when she spoke to the parent about the sale. Driggers creating this rule specifically targeting Marla was illegal as it violated Marla's Constitutional Rights. After the daycare closed, we were unable to find work and faced the real possibility of being homeless. Financially, we weren't prepared. Worse yet, we weren't prepared psychologically. Every day that we went without work increased our fear of being homeless. We did not have any family or friends in San Antonio so we knew that there was no one that could take us in. Because Adrienne Driggers' Department of Family and Protective Services was able to close our daycare, and only source of income, without any legitimate justification we knew that the Department could also take our children without any justification. Because the Department closed our daycare, we were treated like pariahs despite having done nothing wrong. There was also the shock of having to escape from Texas and the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services for the safety of Oklahoma. It was when we were in Oklahoma that we discovered that Adrienne Driggers and her staff had lied to us regarding the amount of time that Marla could not be a license holder. This time limit had lapsed mere weeks after Driggers had closed my daycare. We felt that this was the true reason why Adrienne Driggers closed my daycare, Adrienne Driggers was determined to prevent Marla from operating a daycare.
Though we felt safe in Oklahoma, we returned to Corpus Christi, Texas as my mother's health had so deteriorated that we knew that she did not have much time to live. She would lapse into a coma two weeks after our return. She passed away the following week. My name was the last word that my mother said.
The Department's attorney, Patricia Fernandez, had arranged an agreement to where I would be allowed to operate as an Assistant Director. However, when we tried to reopen in Corpus Christi, Texas, Adrienne Driggers reneged on the offer but was forced to comply by Ms. Fernandez. Even though we had reopened our daycare I always felt that Adrienne Driggers would not give up in trying to destroy us. I felt that she would come back with a vengeance as she had been humiliated by being forced to abide by the agreement made by Ms. Fernandez.
My impression of Driggers, after she tried to attack me at the San Antonio Courthouse, was one of a person who had a complete lack of self control. She was a person whose animalistic tendencies drove her decision making regardless of the damage it inflicted. She was no different from a starving rabid animal.
I knew that psychologically we had to be prepared for her. I bought our boys a puppy as I had read somewhere that having animals can help people cope with loss. When Adrienne Driggers went after us again in Corpus Christi, our boys made it through because of the happiness that they received as a result of having this puppy.
Exercise was incredibly important as well as I had read that exercise and time spent in the sun helped people cope with traumatic experiences. As a family we picked up kickboxing and spending time together at parks. Camping was another way that helped us cope with all that we had lost. We bonded together as a family while enjoying the serenity of nature.
A person that was experiencing the same traumatic experience as a result of Adrienne Driggers called me one time when she was having difficulty coping with the troubles of her life had been destroyed. I told her these words that every person who has lost everything that they have worked for should heed; I told her that I was aware that she had lost everything. I knew that she was being shunned by people that she believed were her closest friends. I knew that it is difficult for her to get up in the morning. I told her "You've got to Get your Ass Up!" because she did not have the luxury to mope around feeling sorry for herself. Those animals weren't going to feel sorry for her. She had to get up and move. She had to fight for her life because refusing to be destroyed by those monsters was a victory for God."